Have you ever received an unexpected gift during the holidays that caught you by surprise? On the one hand you’re delighted. A gift for moi? You shouldn’t have!
And then, reality sinks in. No really, you shouldn’t have.
We’ve all heard of the saying, “Tis better to give than to receive.” I can agree with this statement to some extent. There is nothing more gratifying than watching your dearest loved ones open a gift in delight to discover something hand picked especially for them. All the while, chestnuts are roasting on an open fire.
While this adage makes us feel all warm and fuzzy inside, it fails to address the guilt befallen to the recipient. On more than a few occasions, I have been the giftee of many a generous gifter. But, like a dolt, I did not have any presents to give in return. Being the fruitcake that I am, instead of a graceful thank you, I offered what I think to be a guilt ridden expression on my face while I sheepishly accepted the present.
The moral of the story is: avoid that awkward social situation like the plague, and be prepared like Doomsday Preppers by having a few stocking stuffers handy, for both his and hers in mind.
You can thank me later – as long as the gift comes wrapped in a pretty little box.
Hahahaha I totally agree with this~!!! Excellent post!
Lol I have totally been that idiot that didn’t have a gift to reciprocate! This is great advice. Much better than what I normally do – claim that I left the gift at home and then make a mad dash for the mall to buy something for the next time I see the generous gifter.
Haha! Or maybe as the giftee we should just get more comfortable with graciously accepting a gift without guilty conscience.
Oh I wouldn’t mind getting that polka-dotted Kate Spade book, how adorable! 🙂 xo~ Lena
Anything polka dot is quite charming, isn’t it?